As it happens, my irrational concern about self-penetration is notably typical.

Away from all my irrational worries, I would need to say that my concern about fingering myself ranks inside the top five. I like penetrative sex by having a partner, but i have never ever when within my life effectively penetrated myself—and whenever We decide to try, I instantly panic, get switched off, and prevent. TBH, i am unsure what passes through my head, but I have an overwhelming feeling of “we require stop this now because i can not place my hands any deeper/I do not like exactly how this seems.” Penetrative toys do not feel enjoyable either, them anymore so I don’t even try to use.